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How to compromise on retirement planning?

My husband and I have sold our home and purchased a new construction last year, but it’s not where I want to be long-term. I would like to retire elsewhere (south) and whenever I mention the loc...

reddit.com Mar 27 2025

Using long term capital gains in retirement.

I want to retire in the next year or so (I’m turning 65 my wife turning 64 in 2025). I have a large amount of a single stock (550k) and a fair amount of 401k money (1.2 million) as well as (200k...

reddit.com Mar 25 2025

Some weeks I don't leave the house for days. Help!

My husband and I are retired, living in the north suburbs of Minneapolis. I feel like a useless shlub sometimes, when I don't leave the house for a couple of days straight, especially when the temp is...

reddit.com Mar 24 2025

We are Babysitting every other week. All week.

Hello! I’m still working until June FT then plan to go part time, every other week when we don’t have our grandkid. She’ll be 2 soon. Our son split from wife in 2023 just after hubby...

reddit.com Mar 23 2025

I don't miss my IT Leadership Job

Last night, my wife mentioned she thought I retired too early. Today, after catching up with some of my old team members over coffee, I realized I don’t miss the job at all. The man who replaced...

reddit.com Mar 19 2025

Equities vs fixed income for retirement next year

Retireing in a year need advice on equities vs fixed income I am working at 76 for another year since the sale of my business payoff required another year of my presence. Wife retired a few months ago...

reddit.com Mar 19 2025

Experience with Tricare For Life?

My husband is retired from the military and we became eligible for Tricare when he turned 60. I’m planning to retire the end of October at age 64. What have your experiences been with Tricare co...

reddit.com Mar 18 2025

Where to find info on how to not blow my IRA

I'm in my mid 60s and this is the first time that I have to make a decision about a 401k. My spouse used to be the one that handled all our financial interests, not much financials we were both poor a...

reddit.com Mar 15 2025

Survior benefits

Hypothetically if I am receiving $700 a month and my husband is receiving $1200 a month, my survivor benefits would be his $1200, and not his plus mine?...

community.aarp.org Mar 07 2025

Should We Hire A Financial Planner?

My husband [61] and I [58] plan to retire in 4 yrs when he turns 65. He is not concerned about the money/budget aspect of our early retirement, but I'm panicking we wont have enough to live on long-te...

reddit.com Feb 21 2025

Solo travel tours, experiences?

I’m a 68m, retired and married. My wife has a very rewarding job she loves with lots of business travel and no desire to retire I’ve seen ads for solo travel tours that could be fun though...

reddit.com Feb 13 2025

Worried about moving for retirement

I am 67, my husband is 68 and we both plan to retire at 70. Our desire in retirement is to have a bigger piece of property where we can do extensive gardening. We currently live in a nice suburban hom...

reddit.com Feb 10 2025

Please help me to deal with my fear of retirement!!

I am 66 y.o. And I retire at the end of March. Financially, we are good. My wife will work for one more year after I retire. We have been a very family centric couple. It’s always been about our...

reddit.com Feb 06 2025

What vacations have been your best yet?

Wife and I are 63 and now that her knee surgery is over are wanting to plan some vacations. We have been to a few places es, Alaska, Canada, carribean. But what i want to know is for the man and wife ...

reddit.com Feb 04 2025

Paid Sick Leave Helps Older Workers, Who Need it Most

It’s common for older workers to develop an acute medical problem requiring immediate attention or to have a spouse or parent who suddenly becomes ill and must be cared for. Paid sick leave prov...

crr.bc.edu Feb 03 2025

Best affordable cell phone carrier?

My wife and I have been Verizon customers for over 20 years and, now that we’re retired, are looking for ways to reduce our monthly expenses. My mother was on our plan and recently passed away s...

reddit.com Jan 30 2025

selling house and renting apartment in retirement

My wife and I are 59 and we plan to take an early retirement later this year. We also plan to move closer to our kids, across the US, to a more expensive area. We are very concerned about the home pri...

reddit.com Jan 25 2025

Exploring Taxes with a Friend of WCI

Joined by tax guru Alexis Gallati, we have another Friends of WCI episode, where we answer questions about the benefits of hiring your spouse and children, the tax implications of hiring a nanny, and ...

whitecoatinvestor.com Jan 23 2025

I need help deciding where to retire

Just turned 64M. I plan on retiring in September. I’ve lived in Tallahassee Fl for 22 years. My wife passed away December 23’ and I just think it would be easier for me to continue on in a...

reddit.com Jan 22 2025

Spousal benefits and repeal of GPO

I am 76 and my spouse is 79. She applied for Social Security benefits at her full retirement age. I was subject to GPO so I couldn't apply for spousal benefits. Please help me with the following quest...

community.aarp.org Jan 16 2025

Thoughts On Life Insurance for Seniors

My wife and I are 62 & 63 respectively. Our kids are grown, out of the house and employed. Our house is paid off, and we have no debt. For 20 years, my wife & I had level plan term life insura...

reddit.com Jan 15 2025

Unsure when to start drawing SS benefit.

Background information: I'm currently 66-4 months and full retirement age is 66-8 months. My wife is 55. I retired 2 years ago and my wife will be retiring in 2 months. We both are collecting decent p...

community.aarp.org Jan 14 2025

Retirement planning for couples?

I've been trying to decide whether I should bite the bullet and pay for a financial advisor to look over my retirement plan. I'm 56m, spouse is 52f. No children, and no real need to leave an estate ex...

reddit.com Jan 10 2025

Silver sneakers program: feedback sought

Happy retirement, all. My husband is retiring in May at 65.5 yrs (so on Medicare) and with our institutional healthcare plan, which happens to be an Advantage plan (Humana, it's negotiated by our stat...

reddit.com Jan 06 2025

Did you celebrate retiring? If so, how?

Today is my first real day of retirement (yesterday being a holiday). I suggested to my wife that a great way to celebrate would be to spend 3-4 days in Orlando, and get away from this cold front that...

reddit.com Jan 04 2025

Defusing a Future Tax Bomb With Roth Conversions - 510

Does it make sense for Alex and his wife in Massachusetts to do Roth conversions now to the top of their eventual tax bracket? Steve in San Diego got serious about saving for retirement after Joe and ...

purefinancial.com Dec 31 2024

Moving from Stay at Home Parent to Retiree?

Were any of you a stay a home (SAH) parent or was your spouse? If so, what defined 'retirement'? Age, kids launching, collecting SS, spouse retiring, ...? I have only one friend who was FULLY a SAHM (...

reddit.com Dec 30 2024

Retiring in a large home - Good idea or not?

Greetings all, I’m curious to hear everyone’s thoughts on the following. My wife and I are still several years away from retirement, her about 5 and 10 myself. Even though the ‘big d...

reddit.com Dec 25 2024

Is a “Downsizing Consultant” a thing?

My wife just reached FRA and has applied for Social Security. I reach FRA next November. We still have a mortgage on a 3,100sf, two-story house, which is way more than we need now. We know we need to ...

reddit.com Dec 17 2024

Beware! An HSA Is Great But . . .

When my wife took a new job, I was pumped she could finally get an HSA. But as I crunched the numbers, I wasn't sure it was the right move. The post Beware! An HSA Is Great But . . . appeared first on...

whitecoatinvestor.com Dec 11 2024