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Anyone tell lie about returning to work?

I (62yr) retired and still trying to find myself and my daily routine. When I retired, my gut told me not to really tell everyone, just immediate family that I retired. Of course, I did let out the ne...

reddit.com Apr 23 2026

Retiring this summer, here's a story....

IDK how much I can share here. You never know if someone you know is also here. After 28 years, I'm done. If the work were not so horrible, and the company so greedy, I'd probably stay and make it a f...

reddit.com Apr 23 2026

Housing - Rent or Own during retirement?

Afternoon all - A few days ago, I saw a video from a fianancial consultant who was advocating that if you own a home you should consider selling it when you retire, take the proceeds from the sell and...

reddit.com Apr 20 2026

Question for those that worked until 67-70S

So I see every now and then, someone will say "I worked until I was 70" or "I'm 68 and still working". Why? Is it because you have/had to financially? Or is it that you have/had a pretty low stress ca...

reddit.com Apr 20 2026

If my wife applies for Social Security now

My 62 year old wife is being treated for stage three breast cancer, and she is currently receiving care via Medicaid. She does not have any income of her own, she is not now receiving any Social Secur...

community.aarp.org Apr 19 2026

Unneeded life insurance policies?

Whole life policies purchased 35 years ago, very small and dwarfed by our current portfolio. But still paying for it every month. Really want to cash them out now so my kids have a couple things left ...

reddit.com Apr 18 2026

Health, Vision, Dental Insurance for people under 65

I am not yet retired but getting my ducks in order. I am a NYS teacher. If I retire at 62 I need to pay for my own insurance until Medicare at 65. The school’s health insurance for both my husband and...

reddit.com Apr 16 2026

How did you handle a bump up in income after you retired?

[Long] This might be one of those “Shut up, good problem to have” things, but I honestly don’t have a grip on it. I’ve been retired for 2.5 years and in 6 months, I’ll claim Social Security when I hit...

reddit.com Apr 11 2026

Roth IRA Conversion? Yes or No?

I just turned 65 so I will not have to start taking RMDs until I'm 75. Since IRMAA is based on income from 2 years prior, that means I won't get hit with IRMAA until I'm 77 (2 years after my RMDs star...

reddit.com Apr 08 2026

Complacency cautionary tale involving stairs!

(65M) in good health here, urging all my friends to be careful around the house, as danger lurks where we least expect it and we don’t heal like we used to. Two days ago I nonchalantly headed downstai...

reddit.com Apr 06 2026

My Wife Took The Kids And Left Me – Thoughts Appreciated

Since 2009, I've been writing about all the ups and downs of my financial independence journey, the good and the bad. What I can clearly say is that who you partner with in life is one of the most imp...

financialsamurai.com Apr 05 2026

SS Survivor Benefits

From what I’ve read it’s my understanding if I claim a SS Survivors benefit the amount is based on a percentage of my spouse’s SS benefit at age 67 (FRA). If I claim the benefit at age 60 it would be ...

community.aarp.org Apr 05 2026

How to decide what matters in downsizing?

We are looking to downsize from a 4500sf home. Naturally, that will mean giving up space, but we’re having a hard time prioritizing. Every room in our current home is spacious and we have lots of stor...

reddit.com Apr 02 2026

What Happens to Your 401(k) When You Die?

When you die, your 401(k) only passes to the named beneficiary. Spouses can roll the account into their own IRA, but most non-spouse beneficiaries must withdraw the funds within 10 years, which can tr...

401kmaneuver.com Mar 30 2026

Did you feel guilty after retiring?

I (F, 62) unexpectedly inherited my mother's house and some small investments which have enabled me to retire. It's been a tough year with Mom's death, house sale, all her 'stuff', my husband's job di...

reddit.com Mar 23 2026

Anyone else in my (or similar) shoes?

I have never felt less ready, but more needful, to retire. I am soon to be 66, and have really only had 3 "career" jobs since graduating college at age 22. The first one lasted over 30 years, it was s...

reddit.com Mar 21 2026

Is there a compromise or go our own ways?

Looking for input, as one or more of you have have experienced my situation, and I’m not sure where to go next. Background: husband, 60, retiring next January, originally from nyc moved around a lot g...

reddit.com Mar 16 2026

Completed 6 Weeks Retirement & Feel Better

Hello. I was feeling pretty low 3 weeks ago, after my job of almost 26 years ended on January 30. What has helped me so far: Daily exercise. Walking 5 days a week, and dumbbells for upper body 2 days ...

reddit.com Mar 16 2026

A Serendipitous Question Now That You’re Retired

A longtime friend of mine visited last week. She plans to retire in three years, while I’ve been retired for almost six years. She told me that after she retires from her current career, she’d like to...

reddit.com Mar 13 2026

The Pain Of Selling A Home Too Soon In A Rising Market

Recently, a home in the beautiful Forest Hill neighborhood of San Francisco was listed for $2.4 million. It had four bedrooms, three bathrooms, and a modest 2,250 square feet. The home had been remode...

financialsamurai.com Mar 09 2026