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social security for spouse

My wife will reach FRA 6/2025 she will draw on my earning history. Will she be qualified for 1/2 what my SS payment was in 2019 or will it be adjusted for COLAs that have taken place since that time?...

community.aarp.org Oct 17 2024

renting or buying in retirement

We own our home and will retire in 2-3 years (me at 70, my wife at 65). We have adequate retirement income to cover expenses. We live in a small town that is unfortunately quite a ways from either of ...

reddit.com Oct 13 2024

Spousal Benefit Claim almost 2 years after death

My mom is 87 and she lost her husband 2 years ago. She is not tech saavy and received no letter from SS so she did nothing about claiming spousal benefits. When I assisted her to put in the claim, SS ...

community.aarp.org Oct 11 2024

It's almost that time (outsourced to retirement)

My company outsourced my job and I am 62 next month. I have a 401k, pension and working younger wife. She is 56 will work another 4 to 6 years. Medical is covered via her work. I am on staff till Dece...

reddit.com Oct 02 2024

“Retirement” in Spanish is “jubilaciòn”

I'm counting down to retirement on 9/1/25, and my wife (retired 5 years ago and loving it) sent me this nugget today. A retired person is a jùbilado/a. I just love this, with its connotation of...

reddit.com Sep 29 2024

Retirement and unexpected changes

The wife and I are wrapping up careers and plan to be completely retired by early November. While it’s a little intimidating, it’s also very exciting. It felt great last week when I starte...

reddit.com Sep 28 2024

Retired - but spouse is still working

I can’t wait for my wife to retire. What? Yes, I mean it. I planned ahead for retirement. I have plenty of hobbies and retirement has been the greatest. However, my wife still works. Therefore, ...

reddit.com Sep 26 2024

Beneficary question.

Hi. My mother's husband started collecting her social security after she died 6 years ago. Recently a previous husband she is divorced from 50 years ago is now trying to file for 1/2 her social securi...

community.aarp.org Sep 22 2024

How do you live on a cash basis in today's world?

I'm a few months into retirement, my wife is still working till next June. One of the things we're trying to do--and were starting before I retired--is transitioning our spending on routine items away...

reddit.com Sep 18 2024

What to Do If Your Doctor Spouse Dies Young

As doctors, we know people die all the time. Financially speaking, it's a massive tragedy to lose income when others are depending on it. The post What to Do If Your Doctor Spouse Dies Young appeared ...

whitecoatinvestor.com Sep 18 2024

Earlier retirement with survivor benefits?

I think I'm going to retire next year at 60, by claiming my survivor benefits from my late wife. I would later switch to benefits at 67 for the full amount. I was shocked to find out this was possible...

reddit.com Sep 13 2024

Long distance move, late in the game

Hello everyone! My husband and I are in our early 60s (him) and late 50s (me). He is looking at retiring from his company in about 5 years. We have lived in the same area in the south for the entire 3...

reddit.com Sep 10 2024

Should I Consider a Personal Liability Umbrella Policy?

I've been retired a couple of years now, my wife about a year. We recently bought a new car. In talking with our insurance guy, he recommends we get a Personal Liability Umbrella Policy. It would cove...

reddit.com Sep 06 2024

On Your Own

As we age, it’s normal to become more empathetic toward widows and widowers. We see friends go through the struggle of losing their spouse and deal with that difficult transition […] The ...

theretirementmanifesto.com Aug 30 2024

Seeking investment advice for a concerened 61 yr old.

I am 61 years old. Reasonably healthy and still working. Wife is 65 and on disabilty but better after 2 new knees. I don't have any retirement plan other than SS. We just paid off our house, vehicles ...

reddit.com Aug 26 2024

Retiring before spouse due to medical issues

My husband and I had an excellent retirement plan and were planning on retiring the same month. We have a vision for what that will be like and what we will do, However, I’m having mobility prob...

reddit.com Aug 22 2024

Can we semi-retire soon, 59 yrs old and married

Hi everyone, My wife and I are thinking of packing in our jobs and perhaps holding part-time roles for a few years. We’re both 59. The dilemma- we don’t have nearly enough to retire on in ...

reddit.com Aug 20 2024

SSDI

I am on SSDI an my spouse is on SSDI. He has liver cancer. When he passes away, how will SSDI work?...

community.aarp.org Jul 29 2024

Social security early for working spouse

This might seem like an odd question but I've been getting conflicting advice. Husband 71 and retired with pension and SS. I'm 65 and working full time at the moment. My full SS is 66, 10 months. My h...

reddit.com Jul 28 2024

Financial (and life) management without close relatives

My wife and I are in our mid-60's and retired. We (supposedly ;-) have enough money to last us through our lifespans, We do not have any children or close younger relatives and we both have parents wh...

reddit.com Jul 26 2024

Anyone snowbirds get the homesick blues?

My wife and I are retiring next year, with plans to move to her hometown in Alberta, Canada, which is freezing cold for at least four months a year. So the tentative plan is to spend two or three of t...

reddit.com Jul 24 2024

The 10-Year Rule for Inheritance

I don’t know if this is the type of question that’s allowed here, but here it goes… My husband is inheriting a large sum of money (about $1M) from his recently deceased father, some...

reddit.com Jul 14 2024

Getting a sum payout upon retirement.

My wife is retiring from her job with our state govt. She will be drawing a pension. She is not old enough for SS yet. She is going to receive a lump sum amount for accumulated vacation/sick time. Her...

reddit.com Jul 02 2024

What are some $ benefits retirees get?

So i m retiring soon, my wife is already retired. As far as pension, healthcare, social security, 401K, taxes…. I m fine with these important aspects of retirement What i want to look at now is...

reddit.com Jun 25 2024

When to start looking for the right CCRC

sign up early if you see yourself needing the support of on down the line MY wife and I are "of the age" at which we should be exploring moving into a living situation that will provide care for us as...

reddit.com Jun 21 2024

Retirement options in North Carolina

Wife and I struggling over where to retire within 3 years. Me M(64) she F (xx - to protect me from getting stink eye). Leave it to say, she is already retired as is not working and drawing SS. We are ...

reddit.com Jun 15 2024

Part Time Work in Semi-Retirement

I am 63 and ready to leave my current job after 40 years. My wife is 4 years younger and works full time and will be able to provide health benefits. I would like to find something part time but I am ...

reddit.com Jun 13 2024

Thoughts on insurance for a younger spouse

I'm a 66 y/o male who would like to retire. My spouse is 63 so she is two years away from Medicare. The thing is, we currently have excellent insurance under my employer. January 1st would open up the...

reddit.com Jun 13 2024

I’m thinking of going back to work. Thoughts?

I was eligible for retirement and did because spouse became terminally ill and I wanted to do home care. Fast forward three years, spouse passed away. Spent 2 years climbing out of that depression and...

reddit.com Jun 02 2024

Retiring before wife, and it feels weird

I am a male 61, wife is 53. Our marriage has consisted of traditional rolls, and very successful. She has been working for school system for 15 years as a teachers aide. I will retire before my wife. ...

reddit.com May 31 2024

Health care with younger spouse

I am 60 but my spouse is 38. I currently have our health insurance through my job. I plan to retire at 67. 1. When I turn 65 can I keep my employer insurance or will I be forced to take Medicare with ...

reddit.com May 28 2024

Florida or Arizona for Retirement in 2 years

My wife is retiring in 2 years and we have our heart set on selling our big and expensive home in New England and relocating to either Arizona or Florida. I am thinking about the pros and cons of and ...

reddit.com May 25 2024

What happens to my slacks when I retire?

Looking forward to retiring this summer. We've got a studio apartment in our home that I will rent out on AirBnB and I've got a small trust ($650/month) from my dad passing last year. My wife will con...

reddit.com May 16 2024