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Many Couples Do Not Coordinate 401(k) Matches

Imagine a married couple. Both work, and their earnings are identical. But one spouse’s employer is matching every dollar of her 401(k) contributions up to a cap. The other spouse’s 401(k)...

crr.bc.edu Oct 12 2023

Long term care

How many have opted for long term care insurance? It's a huge cost, but the thought of needing care and leaving my spouse destitute is daunting. I know a lot of people my age (nearing retirement) that...

reddit.com Mar 22 2023

I'm confused on when to claim spousal benefits

I just turned 67 and claimed my SS benefit when I reached my FRA, last year. My wife, who turns 66 this next week, was mostly a stay at home mom but did teach for a few years. Upon her turning 62, she...

community.aarp.org Mar 20 2023

7 Ways to Get Your Partner on Board Financially

[Editor's Note: We’ve long said that the best possible asset protection for your family is a regular date night with your spouse. But sometimes busy couples need a little more guidance. That&rsq...

whitecoatinvestor.com Mar 15 2023

Is this enough for my wife to live on?

Hi. We are both in our mid fifties and live in Los Angeles. If I were to die tomorrow, a distinct possibility, could she make 300K last the rest of her life? She’s on permanent disability and re...

reddit.com Mar 13 2023

Your current status and your future wishes for retirement

I'll start Low 50's DINK's Wife and I have been employed since high school. Once I'm done, I have zero desire to work ever again. ​ I have 22 years with current company and my wife has 10. No ki...

reddit.com Mar 08 2023

Movie inspiration to get excited about retirement?

After years of dithering on both of our parts, today my husband finally pulled the plug and formally announced his retirement date (May) at his very boring bank job. He’s now freaking out about ...

reddit.com Mar 03 2023

retire right now?

I got a lot of stuff going on. I have kidney cancer, I am 64 and have a federal job that now has changed and I question my skills at it, I have a wife who quit her job and has retired but without draw...

reddit.com Mar 01 2023

Age for determining spousal benefit

If my spouse retires at age 62 and receives a reduced benefit on her own record, and I retire at my FRA when she is 65, which of her ages is used to determine her spousal benefit? 62 or 65?...

community.aarp.org Feb 21 2023

Exceptions to the One House, One Spouse, One Job Rule

By Dr. James M. Dahle, WCI Founder Anyone who has been around the physician financial blogosphere has probably heard someone cite the “one house, one spouse” rule of thumb. In 2015, I expa...

whitecoatinvestor.com Feb 20 2023

Winter rentals in 55+ communities

Hi, Anyone rent in a 55+ community during the winter months? Spouse and I are retiring this year and would like to find some rentals for next winter in a 55+ community. I have one lined up in Florida ...

reddit.com Feb 19 2023

Retire next year?

I am 53m with wife, 53f, one kid, 15. Retired from military in 2020 with 70k pension that I am currently receiving. Wife gets 30k if I die first. I expect 35k/yr social security at 67. Wife will colle...

reddit.com Feb 19 2023

Wife doesn’t want me to retire

Wife and I are both 52. I’m currently making around $300k a year in a fairly high stress role that I hate. My wife retired 5 years ago due to health issues - she gets $36k a year for disability....

reddit.com Feb 16 2023

Four Years and Counting

In a little over four years, I will be 78, a fact that is sometimes hard to grasp. Betty and I agree that is when it would be wise for us to move to a continuing-care retirement community. My wife wil...

satisfyingretirement.blogspot.com Feb 14 2023

Retirement location.

My wife and I live in north nj, one of the most affluent suburbs in the US. We live in a 120 year old stone house on about .5 acres but surrounded by a park on 2 sides and some woods from an office bu...

reddit.com Feb 13 2023

about SS and dying before drawing

My wife (of 35+ yrs) has earned much less than I have over the years. The calculators all say my wife should start drawing SS at 62 and I should start drawing at 67. If I die before I start drawing, w...

reddit.com Feb 12 2023

11 months to retirement and haven’t convinced my wife ?

Now 11 months out and i haven’t convinced my wife. She thinks I should stay another 18 months until our kids are out of college. Apparently I need to prepare a PowerPoint and binder like I&rsquo...

reddit.com Feb 04 2023

how to convince wife to take ss?

I am 64 and will retire from my job in 10 months. My wife is 63 and stopped working about 5 years ago, went back to get an accounting degree, got a job that she hated and quit. That job entailed us mo...

reddit.com Feb 03 2023

How do you keep from dwelling on your age?

I'm 63 and plan to retire in a month. In my life I have had many different self-images: as an athlete, a student, a soldier, a worker, husband, father. It didn't matter that I wasn't particularly good...

reddit.com Feb 02 2023