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Seeking advice on relocating after retirement.

I'm a 69 year old male, retired 3 weeks ago. My wife is 68 and will likely retire this summer. We live in the Boston suburbs where cost of living is high. Want to move to a more affordable area that o...

reddit.com Dec 09 2024

Plans to spending more in Retirement

My wife and I have lived most of our lives cutting back and working hard and being fiscal responsible. As we look forward to retirement, we want to enjoy it and not just maintain. It seems most articl...

reddit.com Dec 09 2024

Last day, last time I’m doing…

Today’s my last day. 61F (turning 62 next week). Husband already retired. I’m relishing every “last” moment of this day. Last time waking up at 5:45 am Last time taking a showe...

reddit.com Dec 06 2024

How did you get through your last year of work?

Hi everyone! I am just over 6 months from retirement. I am waiting for my husband to be on Medicare and I will be 59 and 1/2. I have seen a financial advisor and was told I could retire now. I have wo...

reddit.com Dec 06 2024

Collect SS or hold off? Help me decide.

F66 and Husband 71. Full Retirment is 66 and 8 month. Received a severance package that covers me till January 2025. Our total combined net worth including home around 750K Home is about $250k SS woul...

reddit.com Nov 30 2024

How to Retire ASAP - and Where to Save to Get There - 505

Ricochet J in Colorado and her husband want to retire as soon as humanly possible. Are they on track? Should they save their surplus funds to a brokerage account or a solo 401(k)? That’s today o...

purefinancial.com Nov 26 2024

Did retirement end or was hard on your marriage?

I'm concerned that once we retire, it will be the end of us. I am very active and my spouse is slowing down...way down. Weekends are spent a lot of time apart because I'm busy with housework or out wi...

reddit.com Nov 25 2024

Do we pay off the house or not?

Hello, My husband is 9 years older than I (he turns 60 this month) and wants to retire as soon as possible. A lot of hard work over the year and killed his body. I will continue working until I am 66 ...

reddit.com Nov 18 2024

Why am I so nervous about retiring soon?

I’m 60, turning 61 soon. Financially, I think we’re (60 wife) in solid shape, but I’m a nervous wreck about telling my boss I’m retiring. We have $1.5m in our IRAs, $1.7m in af...

reddit.com Nov 16 2024

HSA contributions close to retirement

I turn 65 in December, my spouse turns 65 in February. We are currently on my large employer HSA medical coverage. My Company adds $500 each quarter. For various personal reasons I am not sure when I ...

reddit.com Nov 16 2024

Lump sum and manage or pension?

I (m 62) have some health concerns and would do 100% survivor for the wife (f56). She should be around a long time. Lump is 196K, annuity is $1053 a month for my life then her life I would need to mak...

reddit.com Nov 16 2024

Retiring away from Mom and son

Looking for some advice and perspective from this wise group of people. Here's the story so far... My wife and I have worked in tech and done well enough for ourselves. During COVID, she went through ...

reddit.com Nov 14 2024

Medicare when you're not broke.

Already on A only (dependant on wife's group med). My wife will be retiring in early '25 and although she will go Cobra for a bit, I think I will lose my 'creditable converage' classification. I only ...

reddit.com Nov 09 2024

Update on navigating first year of retirement

Hi everyone. Just an update to a previous post where I was wondering how to occupy myself in my retirement in a rural and isolate place, sans car, whilst my husband continues to work. Well, I won a 9-...

reddit.com Nov 09 2024

When did you tell your kids about your money?

As we approach retirement, my wife and I are wondering when we should give our two financially responsible grown kids a heads up on our finances. We feel they should know just in case (god forbid) som...

reddit.com Nov 07 2024

Obsessing about NOT spending money

I'm 66, my wife is 63. We're both semi-retired. I've spent SO much time in the last few years about figuring out how long our retirement savings will last. Yesterday she (a non-smoker) was diagnosed w...

reddit.com Oct 27 2024

Should I start 401k participation at my age - 59

I am a seasonal employee and just met the 1000 hour requirement to participate in the company 401k. I will likely continue with the company for several more years. My spouse (67) plans to retire in 1 ...

reddit.com Oct 25 2024

Stay Close to Kids or Relocate?

My wife and I are in our 50s and are looking to retire by 60. We have been talking about relocating to an active adult community closer to the coast... we have always wanted to be closer to the ocean....

reddit.com Oct 19 2024

renting or buying in retirement

We own our home and will retire in 2-3 years (me at 70, my wife at 65). We have adequate retirement income to cover expenses. We live in a small town that is unfortunately quite a ways from either of ...

reddit.com Oct 13 2024

Spousal Benefit Claim almost 2 years after death

My mom is 87 and she lost her husband 2 years ago. She is not tech saavy and received no letter from SS so she did nothing about claiming spousal benefits. When I assisted her to put in the claim, SS ...

community.aarp.org Oct 11 2024

Personal Life Goals needed before retiring.

I'm 59 1/2 and my wife and I are wanting to plan retirement but we have quite a few issues to safely retire. We are still having to be caretakers of parents and don't have funds really set aside to fi...

reddit.com Oct 06 2024

Why Couples Retirement Planning Is A Team Sport

Are you and your spouse on the same page when it comes to retirement planning? On this episode we explore different aspects of retirement planning for couples and ways to work together as a team. Glen...

retirementroadmappodcast.podbean.com Oct 04 2024

How to Thrive in Retirement by Embracing the Unknown

Chris has been retired for a little over a year while his wife has continued to work. Now that Chris has “tried on” retirement and found the fit good, his wife will likely join him within ...

buzzsprout.com Oct 01 2024

How to Maximize Social Security Spousal Benefits

James addresses a common concern for a couple approaching retirement through a listener’s question. Listener Rob plans to collect Social Security early at 62, raising questions about his wife&rs...

buzzsprout.com Oct 01 2024

“Retirement” in Spanish is “jubilaciòn”

I'm counting down to retirement on 9/1/25, and my wife (retired 5 years ago and loving it) sent me this nugget today. A retired person is a jùbilado/a. I just love this, with its connotation of...

reddit.com Sep 29 2024

How Retirement Plans Are Divided in Divorce

Here's what you need to know about QDROs (qualified domestic relations orders), which determine how assets in a soon-to-be ex-spouse's retirement plans or pension will be distributed....

kiplinger.com Sep 29 2024

Retirement and unexpected changes

The wife and I are wrapping up careers and plan to be completely retired by early November. While it’s a little intimidating, it’s also very exciting. It felt great last week when I starte...

reddit.com Sep 28 2024

Beneficary question.

Hi. My mother's husband started collecting her social security after she died 6 years ago. Recently a previous husband she is divorced from 50 years ago is now trying to file for 1/2 her social securi...

community.aarp.org Sep 22 2024