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Wife joining me in retirement in a month

I've been retired for 2 years as of June 1. My wife has decided to pull the trigger as of the end of June, with her last day (using vacation for the rest) on June 12. We've been talking about the 'nex...

reddit.com May 14 2026

Retirement Anxiety or should I just get over myself?

UK 56M, I have worked abroad for the last 8 years and plan to work as long as my body allows, but at least up until UK state pension age, mainly because I had kids later in life (they're going to Uni ...

reddit.com May 11 2026

Soon to enter Retirement Phase 2

(No, not the go-go, slo-go, no-go adage) I just got my letter from Social Security saying, it’s time, bud, apply to claim your benefits. I’ll be 70 in a few months. For the last 2.5 years, my wife and...

reddit.com May 06 2026

I just want to plan for the first Few Months...

We are retiring next year. I want to start going to the gym together, join a wine club, go to the parks (we live in Orlando), Staycation for a while, build a garden.. etc. When I ask my husband what h...

reddit.com May 03 2026

I have nothing in common with older folks

My wife and I moved into a 55+ community 3 years ago and I’ve tried getting on board with forming new relationships with other retired folks. I find that I have no shared interests with most of them. ...

reddit.com May 02 2026

Anyone tell lie about returning to work?

I (62yr) retired and still trying to find myself and my daily routine. When I retired, my gut told me not to really tell everyone, just immediate family that I retired. Of course, I did let out the ne...

reddit.com Apr 23 2026

Retiring this summer, here's a story....

IDK how much I can share here. You never know if someone you know is also here. After 28 years, I'm done. If the work were not so horrible, and the company so greedy, I'd probably stay and make it a f...

reddit.com Apr 23 2026

Housing - Rent or Own during retirement?

Afternoon all - A few days ago, I saw a video from a fianancial consultant who was advocating that if you own a home you should consider selling it when you retire, take the proceeds from the sell and...

reddit.com Apr 20 2026

Question for those that worked until 67-70S

So I see every now and then, someone will say "I worked until I was 70" or "I'm 68 and still working". Why? Is it because you have/had to financially? Or is it that you have/had a pretty low stress ca...

reddit.com Apr 20 2026

If my wife applies for Social Security now

My 62 year old wife is being treated for stage three breast cancer, and she is currently receiving care via Medicaid. She does not have any income of her own, she is not now receiving any Social Secur...

community.aarp.org Apr 19 2026

Unneeded life insurance policies?

Whole life policies purchased 35 years ago, very small and dwarfed by our current portfolio. But still paying for it every month. Really want to cash them out now so my kids have a couple things left ...

reddit.com Apr 18 2026

Health, Vision, Dental Insurance for people under 65

I am not yet retired but getting my ducks in order. I am a NYS teacher. If I retire at 62 I need to pay for my own insurance until Medicare at 65. The school’s health insurance for both my husband and...

reddit.com Apr 16 2026

How did you handle a bump up in income after you retired?

[Long] This might be one of those “Shut up, good problem to have” things, but I honestly don’t have a grip on it. I’ve been retired for 2.5 years and in 6 months, I’ll claim Social Security when I hit...

reddit.com Apr 11 2026

Roth IRA Conversion? Yes or No?

I just turned 65 so I will not have to start taking RMDs until I'm 75. Since IRMAA is based on income from 2 years prior, that means I won't get hit with IRMAA until I'm 77 (2 years after my RMDs star...

reddit.com Apr 08 2026

Complacency cautionary tale involving stairs!

(65M) in good health here, urging all my friends to be careful around the house, as danger lurks where we least expect it and we don’t heal like we used to. Two days ago I nonchalantly headed downstai...

reddit.com Apr 06 2026

My Wife Took The Kids And Left Me – Thoughts Appreciated

Since 2009, I've been writing about all the ups and downs of my financial independence journey, the good and the bad. What I can clearly say is that who you partner with in life is one of the most imp...

financialsamurai.com Apr 05 2026

SS Survivor Benefits

From what I’ve read it’s my understanding if I claim a SS Survivors benefit the amount is based on a percentage of my spouse’s SS benefit at age 67 (FRA). If I claim the benefit at age 60 it would be ...

community.aarp.org Apr 05 2026

How to decide what matters in downsizing?

We are looking to downsize from a 4500sf home. Naturally, that will mean giving up space, but we’re having a hard time prioritizing. Every room in our current home is spacious and we have lots of stor...

reddit.com Apr 02 2026

What Happens to Your 401(k) When You Die?

When you die, your 401(k) only passes to the named beneficiary. Spouses can roll the account into their own IRA, but most non-spouse beneficiaries must withdraw the funds within 10 years, which can tr...

401kmaneuver.com Mar 30 2026

Did you feel guilty after retiring?

I (F, 62) unexpectedly inherited my mother's house and some small investments which have enabled me to retire. It's been a tough year with Mom's death, house sale, all her 'stuff', my husband's job di...

reddit.com Mar 23 2026