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The importance of being "counted on"

Spouse and I are retiring soon and have both greatly reduced our work schedules. We are fortunate to have kids and grand kids living nearby and we also have a 6 month-old Lab puppy. We did not want to...

reddit.com Sep 30 2025

Just hit 3.1/2 years from my last day of work

So, my story is a little different. I stopped working when I was 59 due to medical reasons. I was lucky enough to have had an insurance guy who insisted I take out a private disability when my wife wa...

reddit.com Sep 26 2025

Prevent Ice on Wooden Accessibility Ramp

We recently added a pressure-treated lumber ramp at the front door for my wife's wheelchair. We live in the snow belt along Lake Erie, so I am concerned about how to keep this free of snow and ice. I ...

reddit.com Sep 25 2025

Citizen Science and/or medical studies

I (61F in a couple weeks) retired in March. My spouse retired 4 years ago. We live in an area with world class medical reasearch and a lot of universities. There are quite a number of local studies th...

reddit.com Sep 09 2025

I have begun minimizing my stuff

I reflected on the expensive possessions I own, while my wife and children seem indifferent to them. Additionally, I’ve developed new interests, leading me to start selling and buying various it...

reddit.com Aug 22 2025

How do snowbirds handle the mail?

Once my wife retires (I am already), we are planning on doing the opposite of snowbirding--spending summers in Maine, spending roughly 3 1/2 months away from our permanent home. What is the best way t...

reddit.com Aug 12 2025

Marry an ELECTRICIAN 250810

Episode 487 Whether you’re looking for a spouse with excellent lifetime career earning potential or for a stock market growth opportunity that’s not limited to the narrow Mag7, consider th...

wealthsteading.com Aug 12 2025

Wife vs. Husband: A Retirement Account Showdown

I have a 403(b). My wife has a 401(k). Let's figure out who has the better retirement account and if it matters for our portfolio. The post Wife vs. Husband: A Retirement Account Showdown appeared fir...

whitecoatinvestor.com Aug 11 2025

Survivor Benefit

I am currently 72.My FRA was 66. I'm receiving SS benefits. I retired at 67 and 5 months. My wife is currently 61. She is a legal permanent resident and has never worked in the US. She is not disabled...

community.aarp.org Aug 11 2025

South Carolina vs Florida pros and Cons

My spouse and I have recently retired, and want to move eventually south. I have looked at A LOT of 55+ communities in NC, SC, GA, and FL. When we visited the Bluffton SC area (Hilton Head) I loved it...

reddit.com Aug 06 2025

How did you decide when to downsize?

We are in our 60s and live in a large, 150+-year-old house that needs a lot of maintenance. My husband is retired. I can retire whenever I want to. We need to downsize sooner or later, and we're tryin...

reddit.com Aug 03 2025

CFP/CFA, did you sit with one?

Out of curiosity, just before or when you retired did you sit with a CFP or CFA to go over investing and tax strategies? I retired 6 weeks ago at 59-1/2 and my wife(56) will still work for a few more ...

reddit.com Aug 02 2025

Started working again age 60 and now the breadwinner

Like the title says I went back to working last year due to my husband getting a surprise layoff 3 years ago. He couldn’t find any work and is 7 years older than me. I hadn’t worked the 12...

reddit.com Jul 29 2025

The countdown has begun - 5 1/2 months

I knew we were probably ready financially to retire, but planned on three more years - I turned 60 last month. However, recent corporate chaos led my wife and me to plan out a "what if," which rapidly...

reddit.com Jul 21 2025

Let’s see your favorite national parks photos

As MaM suggested and build on u/Odd_Bodkin ‘s post on national parks. Instead of high jacking his post, I’ll start a new one. My wife and I love national parks. We have been to a few and a...

i.redd.it Jul 20 2025

Woefully underprepared at age 59

Soon to be 59yo career nurse. My wife and I have about $240k in retirement savings with an anticipated $1100/month pension, $1800-230/month SS, and $200,000-300,00. I was feeling ok about my plan unti...

reddit.com Jul 16 2025

Should I retire or wait a few years

Hi, I am contemplating pulling the plug on my career. 100% disabled vet with a great job that I enjoy but not as much as I used to. Body is getting achier (is that a word)each day. Wife is 62 took ear...

reddit.com Jun 30 2025

The Question No One Asks

Mr. 1500 Days is a family guy living in Colorado with his wife and two teenage children. He studied biology ... Read more...

physicianonfire.com Jun 27 2025

Any experience Airbnb’ing it for a couple of years?

My wife and I have been talking about the idea about not permanently setting roots anywhere for a few years after retirement. Wanderlust around for a bit. Go where the weather and food are good for 2-...

reddit.com Jun 27 2025

What to Do After Losing Your Spouse: An Expert Guide

Some financial decisions need to be made sooner rather than later. In honor of International Widows' Day, here's what you need to know about gathering documents and contacting government agencies and ...

kiplinger.com Jun 23 2025

Enjoying my 1st two months of retirement!

Just retired after age 59 (64) two months, ago and my wife and I are truly happy and enjoying it! I was an IT guy for 38 years. Wife and I are both the same age and happily married for 38 1/2 years. P...

i.redd.it Jun 23 2025

Follow up on my inheritance post

My previous post really caught fire, and I think it led to some good discussions. I felt it was important to follow up. My wife and I had a great discussion last night. Although she didn’t come ...

reddit.com Jun 17 2025

When an inheritance become a problem

My wife and I have been married for 28+ years, and one of the reasons is that we split everything down the middle. I worked for about 40 years, while she became a stay-at-home mom in 1996. Now that we...

reddit.com Jun 16 2025

Is anyone else upsizing after retirement?

My husband just retired at 71. I (63) hope to work several more years - I really love my job. We just put an offer in on a house that is older (1828), larger and on a much bigger lot than our current ...

reddit.com Jun 03 2025

Advise, because no one fits my description?

I have no 401k's, no pensions and no stock, no financial advisor. We've always done everything with our own two hands. We've worked way beyond retirement to help our kids. I f(69) and spouse m(75). My...

reddit.com May 31 2025

Important records for heirs - what form?

Seven years ago I created a notebook of important papers for our kids/surviving spouse for when one or both of us is gone. One of my summer projects is updating it. For example, I'm giving up on inclu...

reddit.com May 29 2025

Drowning in spouses attention.

So, indeed I'm head over heels in love with my wife. I have it really good. I retired almost 3 years ago & my wife joined me 3 months ago. We're Gen Jones boomers, with my wife truly a last gasp b...

reddit.com May 29 2025

Ideas for retirement gift for husband

My husband is retiring at the end of June at the age of 60. I’ll be following next February when I turn 60. I would really like to get him a gift to celebrate this milestone, especially since I ...

reddit.com May 24 2025

Looking for legal services related to moving abroad.

My wife and I are looking to move to a Latin American country (Mexico, Costa Rica, or Panama) and I'd like to know if anyone has recommendations on legal services that can help with the process of app...

community.aarp.org May 14 2025

Where did nine years go - time is shrinking

We retired in 2016, I wanted to retire and my better half (wife) had to. I find it impossible to accept that this was 9 years ago. We are doing fine after a few bumps along the way. The time flew by a...

reddit.com May 11 2025

Any retirement party suggestions ?

Hello all! I am officially 591/2 and counting down to my retirement in less than 2 months. :-) My husband graciously suggested we have a party. I agree I should celebrate such an accomplishment in my ...

reddit.com May 07 2025

Reader Case: I Want to FIRE But My Wife Doesn’t

It’s been a while and our reader cases are piling up, so without further ado, it’s time for another reader case! Greetings FC and W!!! I’m normally a “Live quietly amongthe mas...

millennial-revolution.com Apr 30 2025