Spouse

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Is this enough for my wife to live on?

Mar 13 2023

Hi. We are both in our mid fifties and live in Los Angeles. If I were to die tomorrow, a distinct possibility, could she make 300K last the rest of her life? She’s on permanent disability and re...

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Your current status and your future wishes for retirement

Mar 08 2023

I'll start Low 50's DINK's Wife and I have been employed since high school. Once I'm done, I have zero desire to work ever again. ​ I have 22 years with current company and my wife has 10. No ki...

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Movie inspiration to get excited about retirement?

Mar 03 2023

After years of dithering on both of our parts, today my husband finally pulled the plug and formally announced his retirement date (May) at his very boring bank job. He’s now freaking out about ...

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retire right now?

Mar 01 2023

I got a lot of stuff going on. I have kidney cancer, I am 64 and have a federal job that now has changed and I question my skills at it, I have a wife who quit her job and has retired but without draw...

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A Candid Conversation with My Physician Spouse About Burnout, Guilt, and Resentment

Feb 24 2023

[Editor's Note: It’s less than a week until the best medical conference of the year, and even if you can’t attend the Physician Wellness and Financial Literacy Conference (WCICON23) in per...

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Age for determining spousal benefit

Feb 21 2023

If my spouse retires at age 62 and receives a reduced benefit on her own record, and I retire at my FRA when she is 65, which of her ages is used to determine her spousal benefit? 62 or 65?...

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Exceptions to the One House, One Spouse, One Job Rule

Feb 20 2023

By Dr. James M. Dahle, WCI Founder Anyone who has been around the physician financial blogosphere has probably heard someone cite the “one house, one spouse” rule of thumb. In 2015, I expa...

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Winter rentals in 55+ communities

Feb 19 2023

Hi, Anyone rent in a 55+ community during the winter months? Spouse and I are retiring this year and would like to find some rentals for next winter in a 55+ community. I have one lined up in Florida ...

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Retire next year?

Feb 19 2023

I am 53m with wife, 53f, one kid, 15. Retired from military in 2020 with 70k pension that I am currently receiving. Wife gets 30k if I die first. I expect 35k/yr social security at 67. Wife will colle...

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Wife doesn’t want me to retire

Feb 16 2023

Wife and I are both 52. I’m currently making around $300k a year in a fairly high stress role that I hate. My wife retired 5 years ago due to health issues - she gets $36k a year for disability....

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Four Years and Counting

Feb 14 2023

In a little over four years, I will be 78, a fact that is sometimes hard to grasp. Betty and I agree that is when it would be wise for us to move to a continuing-care retirement community. My wife wil...

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Retirement location.

Feb 13 2023

My wife and I live in north nj, one of the most affluent suburbs in the US. We live in a 120 year old stone house on about .5 acres but surrounded by a park on 2 sides and some woods from an office bu...

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about SS and dying before drawing

Feb 12 2023

My wife (of 35+ yrs) has earned much less than I have over the years. The calculators all say my wife should start drawing SS at 62 and I should start drawing at 67. If I die before I start drawing, w...

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11 months to retirement and haven’t convinced my wife ?

Feb 04 2023

Now 11 months out and i haven’t convinced my wife. She thinks I should stay another 18 months until our kids are out of college. Apparently I need to prepare a PowerPoint and binder like I&rsquo...

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how to convince wife to take ss?

Feb 03 2023

I am 64 and will retire from my job in 10 months. My wife is 63 and stopped working about 5 years ago, went back to get an accounting degree, got a job that she hated and quit. That job entailed us mo...

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A Limited Return Of The Stretch IRA? – SECURE 2.0’s New Surviving Spouse Rule

Feb 02 2023

SECURE 2.0 introduces a significant new provision for the surviving spouse of a deceased participant in an employer retirement plan. The new law enhances tax treatments for surviving spouses, especial...

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How do you keep from dwelling on your age?

Feb 02 2023

I'm 63 and plan to retire in a month. In my life I have had many different self-images: as an athlete, a student, a soldier, a worker, husband, father. It didn't matter that I wasn't particularly good...

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Suggestions of being married to a financial hoarder and enjoying retirement. If you were this person, how did you get over it? If you are this person, please help me to understand it and how you would

Jan 23 2023

Retirement is fast approaching. Our Fidelity rep says that we have more than enough, in fact, we could retire now (60) if we wanted. My spouse says that we must prepare for the worst so we rarely spen...

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Too much time with the spouse

Jan 19 2023

I know I need to get more of my own, separate activities going, but since my husband also retired and has next to no retirement hobbies (the golf that he was supposed to be playing all the time fell v...

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Want husband to retire early or semi-retire and go with me to China.

Jan 16 2023

I'm married 11 years (together 13 years). We both are 38. Both my parents has passed away a long time ago, now I'm at the point I just want to go back to China to be with my grandma (whom very old). M...

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What to do with inheritance?

Jan 14 2023

My wife and I are retired and live off my pensions. My pensions cover about 125% of our monthly bills. I also have about $425,000 in my TSP accounts that we have not touched. In the next few months, I...

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