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How is everyone accounting for replacement funds?

Florida is the future retirement home. I’ve called Florida home for almost 50 years. I travel extensively for work and met BF six years ago. BF, future husband, lives in AZ. Plan is to sell both our r...

reddit.com Jun 23 2026

Preparing to downsize. Anyone downsize and regret it?

Wife and I (63) looking to downsize. 20 years in a two story, walk out, 4 bedroom, 3.5 bath that’s been an awesome home to raise two girls. Wife is retired and I’ll retire in next 2 years. Makes a lot...

reddit.com Jun 23 2026

Retired Couples & Household Chores

I wanted to ask this community how retired couples handle chores. I was a stay at home mother. I cooked, cleaned, laundry, etc. My husband is retiring next year. I’m starting to get overwhelmed with k...

reddit.com Jun 21 2026

Retirement-2 years in as of June 1

Me, M/67, wife F/67 (her Bday is August, mine Sept). She is retiring as of next Friday. I retired June 1, 2024. So far, so good. I highly recommend retirement! The money is working. The stock market i...

reddit.com Jun 12 2026

Pension and Best Options for Retirement

Need help with January 2028 retirement. Wife and I will both be 62 at time of retirement. My gut is to take the largest partial lump sum distribution (PLSD) and get money in my hands. That amount is $...

reddit.com May 29 2026

Will Buying Your Dream Home Ruin Early Retirement? - 559

Today on Your Money, Your Wealth® podcast 559 with Joe Anderson, CFP®, and Big Al Clopine, CPA, David wants to know if he and his wife (ages 47 and 53) are actually on track for retirement - without r...

purefinancial.com May 26 2026

Retiring Soon - Is 1% AUM Worth It, or Can We DIY This

Hi everyone! My Gen X husband (60M) and I (58F) are considering retirement in the next 12-18 months. We recently met with a fiduciary financial planner. He was a great guy, and we felt a good connecti...

reddit.com May 22 2026

Search strategies for mid-term winter stays in Florida?

Hello everyone, I am a recent retiree looking to tap into the wealth of experience in this subreddit. My wife and I are planning a trip down to Florida for a two-month stay (possibly longer) in the Po...

reddit.com May 17 2026

Become a Giver, Get Rich

Long-time readers are well aware that my wife and I give away lots of money. Here's why giving to charity is so important to our own wealth. The post Become a Giver, Get Rich appeared first on The Whi...

whitecoatinvestor.com May 16 2026

Soon to enter Retirement Phase 2

(No, not the go-go, slo-go, no-go adage) I just got my letter from Social Security saying, it’s time, bud, apply to claim your benefits. I’ll be 70 in a few months. For the last 2.5 years, my wife and...

reddit.com May 06 2026

I just want to plan for the first Few Months...

We are retiring next year. I want to start going to the gym together, join a wine club, go to the parks (we live in Orlando), Staycation for a while, build a garden.. etc. When I ask my husband what h...

reddit.com May 03 2026

I have nothing in common with older folks

My wife and I moved into a 55+ community 3 years ago and I’ve tried getting on board with forming new relationships with other retired folks. I find that I have no shared interests with most of them. ...

reddit.com May 02 2026

Health, Vision, Dental Insurance for people under 65

I am not yet retired but getting my ducks in order. I am a NYS teacher. If I retire at 62 I need to pay for my own insurance until Medicare at 65. The school’s health insurance for both my husband and...

reddit.com Apr 16 2026

SS Survivor Benefits

From what I’ve read it’s my understanding if I claim a SS Survivors benefit the amount is based on a percentage of my spouse’s SS benefit at age 67 (FRA). If I claim the benefit at age 60 it would be ...

community.aarp.org Apr 05 2026

What Happens to Your 401(k) When You Die?

When you die, your 401(k) only passes to the named beneficiary. Spouses can roll the account into their own IRA, but most non-spouse beneficiaries must withdraw the funds within 10 years, which can tr...

401kmaneuver.com Mar 30 2026

Did you feel guilty after retiring?

I (F, 62) unexpectedly inherited my mother's house and some small investments which have enabled me to retire. It's been a tough year with Mom's death, house sale, all her 'stuff', my husband's job di...

reddit.com Mar 23 2026

Is there a compromise or go our own ways?

Looking for input, as one or more of you have have experienced my situation, and I’m not sure where to go next. Background: husband, 60, retiring next January, originally from nyc moved around a lot g...

reddit.com Mar 16 2026

Readiness needs specify household vs individual accounts

So, hear me out. My husband and I could have retired sooner, but we were having a difficult time trusting that we were ready. We had a pretty good portfolio of investments and savings, but was it enou...

reddit.com Mar 07 2026

Can We Pay for College Without a 529?

As my family grows, my wife and I will need to find ways to pay for college. What are the alternatives rather than just using a 529? The post Can We Pay for College Without a 529? appeared first on Th...

whitecoatinvestor.com Mar 06 2026

Retirement Finances, first 20 months

I retired June 1, 2024. My wife is still working, her planned last day is June 30, this year. Here's a few things I've noticed.... I'm maintaining our 'retirement fund' portfolio at Vanguard in the 60...

reddit.com Feb 28 2026

Can You Afford to Remodel Your Home in Retirement?

Your spouse wants to remodel your kitchen and several bathrooms in your house. You’ve received a quote for the work for about $100,000. Using a strategic withdrawal approach and a Monte Carlo modeling...

howmuchcaniaffordtospendinretirement.blogspot.com Feb 27 2026

Early Retirement, seeking advice

My wife (62) and I are starting to think seriously about our next steps and would really value some outside perspective. I’m turning 60 this year. We’re mortgage-free and have around £250,000 in savin...

reddit.com Feb 26 2026

Money and siblings and spouses

I am 66 and my sister is 76, her husband is 84. We are both married, retired, have homes. But. I have several degrees, had a really good job in tech as did my wife. We saved enough money and are grate...

reddit.com Feb 24 2026

The Five Questions for Peace of Mind in Retirement

Like many pre-retirees, it was the single most important question on my mind. "Do I have enough money?" Actually, being married, it was, "Do WE have enough money?" My wife and I were retiring at the s...

reddit.com Jan 05 2026

Reader Case: Retire and Travel, or Own a Boat?

It’s been a while, so let’s do another reader case, shall we? Hi Kristy and Bryce! At 53, I definitely don’t count as a Millennial. But my wife, who was born in 1980, just barely squeaks in, depending...

millennial-revolution.com Dec 08 2025

How Much More Can You Afford to Spend in 2026?

It’s not too early to start planning your spending for 2026 even though you haven’t yet determined your January 1, 2026 Funded Status. You or your spouse may be considering spending in 202...

howmuchcaniaffordtospendinretirement.blogspot.com Nov 10 2025

SoCal / San Diego for Retirement?

My wife and I (both retired, not working jobs) are strongly considering San Diego CA as our final living destination. Austin TX is just getting too hot, and it will only get worse. 8 months of summer,...

reddit.com Nov 08 2025