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Retired three months and I’m having a difficult time.

So I retired September 11 and thought that it would be great. Instead, I’m finding that I’m spinning my wheels in that I have reached all my goals that I had set forth before I retired. I have a lot o...

reddit.com Jan 03 2026

No, the Poverty Line Isn’t $140,000 a Year

A few weeks ago, Michael Green published a post where he argued that the poverty line for a family of four in the U.S. wasn't $32,100 in annual income (as currently claimed by the Department of Health...

ofdollarsanddata.com Dec 19 2025

How Long Do You and Your Spouse Plan to Live, Part 2

This post is follow-up to our post of December 22, 2024 and will again highlight the benefits of using the Actuaries Longevity Illustrator (ALI) to help you develop reasonable lifetime planning period...

howmuchcaniaffordtospendinretirement.blogspot.com Dec 14 2025

Oh.What.Fun.

Oh.What.Fun Film Review by Darrell Griffin, Pres PureAudacity.com Oh.What.Fun. is a holiday comedy that hilariously reveals the invisible labor of moms. Darrell Griffin, President of PureAudacity.com,...

pureaudacity.com Dec 09 2025

Reader Case: Retire and Travel, or Own a Boat?

It’s been a while, so let’s do another reader case, shall we? Hi Kristy and Bryce! At 53, I definitely don’t count as a Millennial. But my wife, who was born in 1980, just barely squeaks in, depending...

millennial-revolution.com Dec 08 2025

Inbox Question | Roth Conversion Strategy for High Earners

Meera and her husband have $4.5 million in retirement accounts and a $430K income. They want guidance on when to start Roth conversions, how much to convert each year, and whether to continue 401(k) c...

bigpictureretirement.libsyn.com Nov 13 2025

How are you planning for your spouse after you die?

I (M74) am really having a difficult time trying to decide how and who to handle our assets after my death. I have done most of our investing and financial management in the past. The majority is in b...

reddit.com Nov 11 2025

ACA Health Plan Premiums When One Spouse Starts Medicare

The ACA health plan premiums may decrease, stay the same, or even increase when one spouse starts Medicare. Here's why. Learn the Nuts and Bolts I put everything I use to manage my money in a book. My...

thefinancebuff.com Nov 11 2025

How Much More Can You Afford to Spend in 2026?

It’s not too early to start planning your spending for 2026 even though you haven’t yet determined your January 1, 2026 Funded Status. You or your spouse may be considering spending in 202...

howmuchcaniaffordtospendinretirement.blogspot.com Nov 10 2025

SoCal / San Diego for Retirement?

My wife and I (both retired, not working jobs) are strongly considering San Diego CA as our final living destination. Austin TX is just getting too hot, and it will only get worse. 8 months of summer,...

reddit.com Nov 08 2025

Ever feel like you goof-off too much in retirement?

Me? I'm a hunter, but I never shoot anything. I'll go out in the woods in the afternoon and sit and observe. Then, when it gets dark, I walk back to the car and go home or to my camp. Mornings, I go o...

reddit.com Nov 04 2025

Inbox Question | How Filing Early Impacts the Spousal Benefit

Today we answer a question from Ken, a recent retiree at 63, about how his Social Security claiming decision impacts his wife's future spousal benefit. We break down how spousal benefits are calculate...

bigpictureretirement.libsyn.com Oct 31 2025

Smart Financial Planning: Balancing Data with Peace of Mind

Financial planning often feels like a numbers game—follow the math, and you'll make the best decisions, right? But what happens when the spreadsheet says one thing, and your peace of mind says a...

bigpictureretirement.libsyn.com Oct 31 2025

What Millionaire Retirees Fear Most (But Rarely Talk About)

For many affluent retirees, the biggest financial fear isn't market volatility or rising taxes. It's this simple question: What happens if I'm not the one here to manage the plan? In this episode, we ...

bigpictureretirement.libsyn.com Oct 31 2025

For those with partners, who retired first and why?

For those of you who are married which spouse retired first and what was the reason for this? How are the dynamics post-retirement? I will retire before my husband. I've always made less and as I stop...

reddit.com Oct 30 2025

When to apply for Social Security benefits

I’m 61 and “retired” 4 months ago. Arthritis is taking its toll and I wanted time before I’m not able to do more than hang out in front of a tv. My wife plans to work for 5 mor...

reddit.com Oct 28 2025

Looking for a offline retirement data aggregator

Between my wife and I we both have accounts at Fidelity and Charles Schwab. They are a mix of rolled over 401K's, IRA's and Roth. I have been using Empower as a way to view all the accounts and keep a...

reddit.com Oct 17 2025

Which Spouse’s Accounts To Convert

M65 & F67. We have 88% of our retirement assets in always taxable accounts. 75% of that is in the M65 accounts. We have plenty of room for conversions this year through 2027 for sure. Possibly lon...

reddit.com Oct 17 2025

Getting my cash in order

Earlier this year my wife asked, “Where is our money?”That question sent me down a path of simplifying everything — starting with our emergency fund....

faangfire.com Oct 16 2025

How did you adjust to retirement as a couple?

Bit of a strange one — my wife and I both retired recently, and I didn’t expect this part to be the hard bit. We get on fine, but suddenly we’re in the same space all day, every day,...

reddit.com Oct 15 2025

Age difference in retirement between my wife and myself.

Wondering how others approached this. I am 57, my wife is 46. I could retire at 62, 65 easily but how do I not work for the 10 years that my wife has to work? Just a moral dilemma I am trying to plan ...

reddit.com Oct 06 2025

Care to share a little inspiration?

As I finish lunch at the office, looking forward to another 10 years before I can retire, I often read the stories of the people in this community and daydream a little bit about what my wife and I wi...

reddit.com Oct 03 2025

The importance of being "counted on"

Spouse and I are retiring soon and have both greatly reduced our work schedules. We are fortunate to have kids and grand kids living nearby and we also have a 6 month-old Lab puppy. We did not want to...

reddit.com Sep 30 2025

Just hit 3.1/2 years from my last day of work

So, my story is a little different. I stopped working when I was 59 due to medical reasons. I was lucky enough to have had an insurance guy who insisted I take out a private disability when my wife wa...

reddit.com Sep 26 2025

Prevent Ice on Wooden Accessibility Ramp

We recently added a pressure-treated lumber ramp at the front door for my wife's wheelchair. We live in the snow belt along Lake Erie, so I am concerned about how to keep this free of snow and ice. I ...

reddit.com Sep 25 2025

Citizen Science and/or medical studies

I (61F in a couple weeks) retired in March. My spouse retired 4 years ago. We live in an area with world class medical reasearch and a lot of universities. There are quite a number of local studies th...

reddit.com Sep 09 2025

I have begun minimizing my stuff

I reflected on the expensive possessions I own, while my wife and children seem indifferent to them. Additionally, I’ve developed new interests, leading me to start selling and buying various it...

reddit.com Aug 22 2025