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An Interesting Social Security Retirement Story -

Interesting Social Security Scenario - What’s your take on this? ? or ? A (breadwinner) parent divorced a real deadbeat parent after 14 years of marriage -and (2) kids. Neither ever remarried. T...

community.aarp.org Nov 01 2025

How hard is to change my marital status on SSA?

I accidently put "never married" when i applied my benefit last year. I thought i was going to divorce but not anymore. How can i change the marital status on SSA?...

community.aarp.org Aug 14 2025

Impact on retirement of divorce at 60 years or older

My wife and I (both 60) are divorcing and as we live in a community property state, she gets 1/2 of my retirement fund and 1/2 of the value of the house once it's been sold. She keeps an inheritance f...

reddit.com Aug 09 2025

Broken friendships in retirement after age 59

Just wondered if anyone had fallout from relationships due to retirement circumstances. For example, I had one "friend" my age who says they cannot retire and is still working. This friend has divorce...

reddit.com Jul 07 2025

What Happens to Your 401(k) after Divorce

Ending a marriage is hard enough on its own, but figuring out what happens to your 401(k) after divorce can make it even more complicated. This is because 401(k) accounts cannot simply be separated li...

401kmaneuver.com Jun 20 2025

Policy on the care giver

So I was married for 25 years, 15 of those years I was the care giver and really didn’t work. I am now divorced for 2 years. I’m 1.5 years away from collecting full SS payments, my ex made...

community.aarp.org May 09 2025

Lessons to Be Learned From a $1 Billion Divorce

An estate planning attorney notes that an oil executive’s billion-dollar divorce could have turned out very differently if the couple had had a premarital agreement and the executive had used as...

kiplinger.com May 08 2025

How Women Can Turn a Gray Divorce Into a Financial Win

Getting divorced later in life can be a big financial blow, especially for women. But, as this financial adviser points out, it can also serve as a positive turning point for growth and independence....

kiplinger.com May 07 2025

Reader Case: Divorced Mom of Three Worried About Job Loss

It’s been a while so it’s time for another reader case! This one caught my eye immediately because ever since I became a mom I developed an endless admiration for single parents. Some days...

millennial-revolution.com Feb 18 2025

Ready to retire this year. Should I buy or rent?

I'm 65, not retired. I've been renting ever since my divorce 12 years ago but now think I should buy since rents are going crazy and at least I could have some equity someday. I've got about $110K in ...

reddit.com Feb 07 2025

How Retirement Plans Are Divided in Divorce

Here's what you need to know about QDROs (qualified domestic relations orders), which determine how assets in a soon-to-be ex-spouse's retirement plans or pension will be distributed....

kiplinger.com Sep 29 2024

Beneficary question.

Hi. My mother's husband started collecting her social security after she died 6 years ago. Recently a previous husband she is divorced from 50 years ago is now trying to file for 1/2 her social securi...

community.aarp.org Sep 22 2024

What Drives Gray Divorce?

As the rate of gray divorce increases, we look at why older couples are splitting up and some ways to make it work....

kiplinger.com Aug 25 2024

How Much Will Getting Divorced Cost You?

Attorney fees and other fees can add up fast, depending on the route you choose. The less contentious the process, the less expensive it could be....

kiplinger.com Jun 17 2024

I'm okay with being alone for the rest of my life

Seriously. 62 year old male, marred for 32 years, got divorced. Had a serious relationship with a lovely young lady for 4 years after that, we just broke up. I'll be moving to the Chicago area soon an...

reddit.com Jun 02 2024

A Quick Primer on Prenups

A prenuptial agreement helps protect your assets in a divorce. Here's what to know...

kiplinger.com May 28 2024